Tricky Teenage

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 Teenage is said to be the best experience of life, yet also worse.

It's the time one has stepped out of childhood and is on the threshold of adulthood. the decisions taken in this life strongly impact our career and future life.

But all the same, teenagers also suffer the most from emotional stress and peer pressure.

It's very likely for a teenager to choose whatever the group chooses to be labeled as "cool" by his peers, without considering what it might lead to.

Many also suffer from bullying by others who are also suffering from the same stress and pressure and release it on their agemates.

It also leads to smoking, an overdose of drugs, staying up all night, and many other unhealthy habits that develop even more stress.

Other than bullying and peer pressure, teenagers also suffer from a communication gap between parents and teenagers, as teenagers are often misunderstood by their parents because of their rage and mood swings that often erupt.

They also want to prove themselves in the eye of the world, and develop their own perspective, but are underestimated to follow their own decisions.

Teens also want to be fashionable, and up-to-date whether it's about their clothing or bodies, they're very conscious to look their best in the eyes of their peers and consider any kind of comments rather seriously.

But despite all the complications, it's also a wonderful and glorious chapter of our lives, as it's a time our perspective changes about the world, it's also the time we develop our self-stand and learn to face the world with our original identity.

Teenage is also free from the worries of career and family, it's a time to relax a little after the vivid and limited life of childhood, and before the burdened and anxious life of adulthood.

It's time to try out different experiments and discover what suits us the best, know our spiritual self and work on our own emotional needs, develop new bonds, and practice self-care, and independence.

Teenage is a blend of both, devastating, and wonderful experiences, yet it's also necessary to experience both as they help shape a strong and confident adult.

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